abortion, part 2

boy oh BOY abortion is a hot topic for me! i really just can't stand the thought of it and am disgusted by so many murderers/whores justifying it so they can continue to sleep with whomever and not have to deal with the consequence of pregnancy and child birth.
tonight I read this and it basically says that with our new president certain people are hoping that funding for abstinence only education will be cut. Obama openly feels that women deserve choice, specifically the right to choose whether or not they should have an abortion. I, however, feel their choice should be whether or not to have sex. THAT is the only choice that should be protected.
Now I do not know what specifically is taught under the abstinence only program, but a lot of people feel that it is not working. If it is not working it is because too many people are not listening. Too many people already know that if they have pre-marital sex, and become pregnant, then they have abortion as an option. If abortion was illegal and all those too many had to start taking care of their babies then quite possibly those 47% repeat abortion "fans" would not be so eager to repeat their mistakes.
Obama, has openly claimed to be a Christian. (part three, somewhere around 5 minutes if you have doubt) One of God's ten commandments is NOT TO KILL. so how can any Christian support abortion? [Murder is the unlawful killing of a human, so while you may argue that abortion is not murder, there is no arguing that it IS killing.] God also says you shouldn't have pre-marital sex. Most of the women choosing to have abortions are not married.
It's such a frustrating topic for me. Because I just don't see how anyone can justify killing an unborn baby, and I hate how irresponsible people can be.
What makes one unborn baby better then any other? That is a question for any woman who has terminated one pregnancy and then carried another full term. Did you get prenatal care? Did you worry when you felt unexplainable pain? Did you feel anything when you saw your baby on an ultrasound screen? and What made that baby you decided to let live better then the one you killed?
I also personally feel that anyone who has an abortion does not deserve to have any other baby. Not when we live in a country where condoms and birth control can be received for FREE, where adoption ads can be found in the backs of magazines, and there is no good reason to have an abortion in the first place other then one woman's selfishness.